The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. What if someone is murdered in a family? I will give you an example. It was in a supervision group. A therapist set up a client. The father had killed […]
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. Can you give us examples regarding those whose misfortune or death brought the family an advantage or gain? In constellations with the descendants of those who had acquired great wealth,
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The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. What kind of solutions can be found for a client? What constitutes the phenomenological approach here? The phenomenological field of vision ranges from a narrow point of view to a
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. What laws govern the behavior of those who belong to the family soul? As I said before, the family members behave as if they all share a common soul, or
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. How many times do you have to repeat a Constellation? No repetitions. It is done once. The Constellation shows it and then a healing movement can start operating. But it
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The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. What is the dynamics you have seen in working with addicts? When there is addiction, for example alcoholism, we have very strange family constellations. In such a family the wife
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. [These are the views of BH in 1999 and not necessarily those of Erik Andersen] What are the patterns you have observed in relationship to homosexuality? I’ve observed three patterns
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. [These are the views of BH in 1999 and not necessarily those of Erik Andersen] What about Aids? To be infected with the virus or contract AIDS is not a
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. I’m not clear what you mean when you say, “recognize his love and honor his fate.” When a child dies, the other members of the family tend to become afraid
The below is an extract from: Unraveling Family Secrets. Bert Hellinger interviewed on Family Constellations, By Humberto del Pozo in Santiago de Chile, September 1999. You have said there are dynamics conducive to recurrent patterns of accidents or misfortune. Will you please tell us about the dynamics in such cases? Serious illnesses, suicides or suicide
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